Thursday, January 31, 2013

Importance of Pondering


".... I sat in my room pondering over the scriptures; And reflecting upon the great atoning sacrifice that was made by the Son of God, for the redemption of the world; And the great and wonderful love made manifest by the Father and the Son in the coming of the Redeemer into the world; That through his atonement, and by obedience to the principles of the gospel, mankind might be saved.

While I was thus engaged, my mind reverted to the writings of the apostle Peter, to the primitive saints scattered abroad throughout Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, and other parts of Asia, where the gospel had been preached after the crucifixion of the Lord.

I opened the Bible and read the third and fourth chapters of the first epistle of Peter, and as I read I was greatly impressed, more than I had ever been before, with the following passages: .... 

As I pondered over these things which are written, the eyes of my understanding were opened, and the Spirit of the Lord rested upon me, and I saw ...."

This scripture gives us a great pattern for receiving insights from the Spirit. Pondering and reflecting on spiritual matters - then our minds go back to specific scriptures - then we read the scriptures brought to our minds. When we follow this pattern, we often receive insights that are new and/or deeper than what we've seen or understood previously. We are receptive. The Spirit teaches. 

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Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Salt Lake City Adventures


For years I've been attending the Salt Lake Institute of Genealogy in Salt Lake City in January. This is always a great opportunity to be immersed in genealogy. 
Salmon are embedded in the floors of the Sea-Tac airport. They meander across the floors and always converge at drinking fountains!

I think this is Mount Rainier
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The Institute is similar to a week long course. Each of the 278 attendees chose one of 12 courses to study during the week. Course offerings included:  1-American Research and Records; 2-Bridging the 1780-1830 Gap: New England to the Midwest; 3-German Research; 4-Genealogist’s Guide to the Internet Galaxy; 5-Researching in Washington, D.C. Without Leaving Home; 6-Genealogy Marketing & Business Practices; 7-English Research; 8-Producing a Quality Family Narrative; 9-Forensic Genealogy; 10-Advanced Methodology; 11-Advanced Evidence Analysis; 12-Problem-Solving.


I took the Genealogist's Guide to the Internet Galaxy. Thomas MacEntee, far left, was the coordinator for the course and taught many of the classes. He's a well known genealogy blogger, consultant, and speaker. We had four lectures each day from a variety of instructors. Topics for my classes included 1-Lineage Organizations Online: Resources for Non-Members, too 2-Tips for Finding Stubborn Ancestors in Genealogy Databases  3-Clustering and More: Maximizing Your Online Searches 4- Online Collaboration with Other Researchers 5- Google Tools for Genealogists 6-Managing Your Research Using Google Docs 7- Evernote for Genealogists 8-They're Alive - Searching for Living Persons 9- An Introduction to Genealogy Blogs 10– Creating an Online Family History Workspace 11– Mobile Apps for Genealogists 12– Staying Safe Online 13–Online Federal Records 14- Online State Resources for Genealogy: Beyond Ancestry and Family Search 15- Online Newspaper Research 16- Utilizing Social Networks for Genealogy Research 17- Facebook for Genealogists 18 - Twitter - It's Not Just for Breakfast Anymore 19- Sources for Family History Books Online 20- Google Earth

My classmates had interesting backgrounds. Kathleen Hinckley, in the red sweater, uses her genealogy skills to track down missing heirs. You might have noticed above that there was a whole course on forensic genealogy. 

It was VERY cold in Salt Lake City all week. Just a few days before I arrived a huge storm dumped a lot of snow on the mountains and in the city. One evening I walked around Temple Square and enjoyed the beauty of the lights and the snow. 




The fountains at City Creek Center were crusted in ice



While I was in Salt Lake City, I visited with our son and spent a wonderful evening with friends from Dublin who recently moved to the Salt Lake City area. We traded stories about starting over in a new place.  


I usually don't travel light, especially when I'm on a genealogy trip. That 46 is the weight of my suitcase coming home. Maybe it's because I stuffed my long down coat into the suitcase for the trip home :) Express Shuttle is a great way to travel back and forth from the airport - just $8 one way. Can't beat the price!
The Radisson Salt Lake City Downton has the most luxurious comforters and pillows I've ever experienced. I felt like I was cuddling into a cozy nest every night. 

Going home

For pictures of Salt Lake City from previous trips, click on the Utah label

typo corrected February 27, 2016








Patience

The talks in a recent sacrament meeting were on patience – a good topic for me.

One of the speakers referenced this scripture about the patience needed by people who grow crops and likened it to our lives.

" …. Behold, the husbandman waiteth for the precious fruit of the earth, and hath long patience for it, until he receive the early and latter rain. Be ye also patient; …."      James 5: 7-8

The speaker commented on the phrase “early and latter rain." We don’t always receive the nourishing and life-giving “rain” we need when we think we need it. Sometimes the things we need come “early” in our experience (whatever we’re trying to achieve). Then there’s often a dry spell without any progress. Then later we receive the “rain” that makes our crops grow – allows us to progress towards our goal.

A recently returned missionary used the scriptures from Alma32: 26-43 to talk about patience and how we develop it. These scriptures are usually used in a discussion about developing faith but the analogy works well for patience also – have a desire for patience and experiment on that desire – plant the seed and nourish – give patience a try and it will develop. This young man said that often it’s in the waiting, practicing patience, that we receive the most growth spiritually.

“The lessons we learn from patience will cultivate our character, lift our lives, and heighten our happiness.”   Dieter Uchtdorf

 Read or listen to Dieter Uchtdorf's entire talk here

" ... and let us run with patience the race that is set before us,  Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; …”   Hebrews 12: 1-2



Sunday, January 27, 2013

This Beginning of Miracles


This Beginning of Miracles

Daily, my children come scraped and howling:
Blood brimming lavishly in their magnificent
Fear. And there I am at my best: cocooning them
In my calm, my words water and honey on their skin.
Panic, that luxury renounced at childbirth,
Finds no place in me. 
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I keep losing moments,
Days snatched into the jaws of weeks,
Small limbs lengthened, 
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Bloodstains can be whitened, .........
The soul transformed, the water into wine?
Yet what myopic weakling ....
Looks back longingly at water, when good wine is ahead?
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................ As soon mourn birth, or flight;
As soon regret the sunrise. As soon mourn the raw skin,
Healed. And yet it feels like loss, seeing it—
These spreading spirits, their oblivious unfurling,
Stepping delicately from their broken shells:
Filling their lungs, turning their faces up,
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—Marilyn Nielson

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I'd like to post the entire poem here but probably shouldn't because of copyright. Let me know if you'd like to see more. This poem brought many thoughts to my heart and mind. 

The fear children have when they are hurt – and the role of a parents to “cocoon” them with calmness - this is an awesome stewardship. She says a parent gives up the “luxury” of panic at childbirth. So true – or at least you can’t let the child see your panic.

“I keep losing moments, days snatched into the jaws of weeks…” Childhood does go so very quickly. Old people who tell young people that children grow up quickly are right.

Whitened bloodstains, water into wine, healing. All of this is progress, yet sometimes the changes feel like loss even when we know they aren’t.

Spreading spirits, unfurling, stepping out of their hurts, filing their lungs and looking up - Each child is a miracle. How blessed we are as parents to be part of that miracle.

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BYU Studies Quarterly 51, no 4 (2012); 119

Picture of Holton family - Christmas 1955.  
Susan & Julia are wearing felt poodle skirts 
made by Mildred Floyd

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Good Life in a Good Place



Saturday evening I was on my way home when I saw this AWESOME sunset. 
That's downtown Seattle to the left of the sun. 

I thought back over the day and our good life. We puttered around the house working on things we're thankful to have time and skills to do. We are fortunate to live in a wonderful townhouse in this beautiful community. I went to a preparedness fair this afternoon to learn more about being prepared for emergencies. 

I drove through downtown Kirkland several times on my way back and forth this afternoon and early evening. I love this community. It feels good to live here. I was listening to Garrison Keillor and "A Prairie Home Companion." His skits and music make me smile. I love glimpsing the lake as I drive. I couldn't see the Olympic or Cascade Mountains, but I knew they were there. Today's drizzle and low 40 degree temperatures didn't deter people and their dogs from walking outside - some people were even eating outside like the sun was out and it was warm! Kirkland's many outdoor sculptures bring smiles to my heart when I see them. 

I went to the library to pick up several books I had requested. I thought about my love of reading and thankfulness for good books and good libraries. 

I bought dinner at one of our favorite places and was taking it home to Joe. I came around a curve and was stunned by this sunset. I stopped in one park to admire it. Then I drove to Marina Park in downtown Kirkland and got out of the car to take pictures from  several vantage points. The sunset was vivid and downtown Seattle had a very unusual light behind it (to the left of the sun). 

People were drawn to this beautiful sight. Drivers parked and walkers stopped and walked to the water's edge - we were in awe and knew we were witnessing something special. 
Life is good. 


Change & Constancy


"I have always argued that change becomes stressful and overwhelming only when you've lost any sense of the constancy of your life. You need firm ground to stand on. From there, you can deal with that change."           

Christ and His gospel provide the firm ground and constancy. With His love and guidance, we can deal with any change that comes into our lives. 



Thursday, January 24, 2013

Extravagances?



We've been fighting off colds and other bugs in our house. I splurged and purchased the really good orange juice - "not from concentrate." A North Street neighbor introduced us to this years ago. She liked to put a bit of sugar in it to make it sweeter. I was raised in a very frugal family and continue that cost consciousness throughout my adult life. I saw this kind of orange juice as an "extravagance," something an "old" person might be able to afford but we couldn't. 

This got me to thinking about other such "extravagances" I associate with "old people."  In their later years Mom and Dad often had cored, fresh pineapple. It was always delicious but we didn't buy it because we thought it was too expensive. 

When my grandparents came to London for visits, they sometimes brought pints of Baskin-Robbins ice cream. Now that was the ultimate in extravagance! Who could afford Baskin-Robbins - and who in the world ever bought pints of ice cream? A family of six didn't deal in pints of ice cream.  Now that I'm an "old" person, I know the happiness of having a pint of REALLY GOOD ice cream in the freezer for snacking. I have yet to find anything that tastes as good as Graeter's chocolate chocolate chip - although Sirena's gelato has become a nice substitute. 

Now that many would consider me one of those old people, I have a different perspective on these indulgences. We don't have as many people to feed and therefore don't spend as much on food as we used to. Life teaches us that some things are worth the extra cost because they taste good - and we're worth it!






Resolved



Resolved - We will make progress on The Bahamas Project in 2013                

Back in 1999 we started interviewing people about the development of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in The Bahamas. At that time we did not envision how vast the project would grow and how many years of our life it would dominate. Now 13 years later we've interviewed almost 200 people, traveled all over the country and to The Bahamas numerous times. Along the way we've made wonderful friends and documented fascinating stories of faith and perseverance. We've presented at national conferences to share the history, our insights, and analysis. 

Funding from Brigham Young University and donors enabled us to hire two transcribers. All the interviews have been transcribed. Before turning the material over to BYU and the LDS Church Archives, we want to audit each interview - check to make sure the transcriber used the correct names and events - not an easy job for a transcriber who does not know the Bahamian dialect. It takes about 6 hours to listen to each interview, check it against the transcript, and add information to the finding aides we've created.  Auditing will be an assurance to anyone who wants to use the materials for research and writing that the materials are as accurate as possible and are much more than a collection of stuff from a little old missionary couple who loved their mission people and country. 

Prior to our move across country, we had a routine that created forward momentum. Then we moved. Then 2012 flew by. 

The definition of "finished" has changed over the years as the realities of time, motivation, and age have hit us. Originally we were collecting the material to write "the book." Then the number of interviews expanded and we recognized the value of creating a collection of "research ready" materials. As we talked with librarians and archivists, we were assured that the materials needed to be such that academics could trust that there was a level of professionalism involved in the transcribing the interviews and putting the collection together. 

SO - these bins, file drawers, and notebooks wait for us. The contents of the drawers got scrambled when the filing cabinet was moved. Our starting point is going through the drawers, rearranging the contents, and becoming reacquainted with what we have and where we left off. To that end I cleared out some bins in the garage and created enough space that we can have a work table for organizing. That was a feat!

Mentally we have to recapture the motivation, desire, and excitement that used to accompany this project. We're not sure how we're going to do that. We still feel it's extremely valuable material that can be used by many and in a multitude of ways. Right now we see it as a duty that we need to plod through so we can turn it over to someone else who will see the potential. There's a lot to be said for doing things out of duty. That's enough to keep us going - once we get started again. 
We're ready to "finish" the project and move on with other big tasks - like family history. We realize that in another 13 years I will be almost 80; Joe will be 91. We don't know what kind of big projects we'll be taking on then - or if we'll even still be here. So we'd better clear this one out to make room for other things on our todo lists! 

When I was creating this post, I noticed the magnetic sign on the drawer - "Whatever you can do, or dream you can, BEGIN IT. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. (Goethe) I don't know who placed it there and when - but it's a great reminder to BEGIN. 
BEGIN - we have begun - again







Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Virtual vs Real



At first glance David Bednar and Jaron Lanier would appear to be about as different as two people could be. David Bednar is a modern day apostle. His mission is the same as the apostles of old - “An Apostle is a missionary, bearing testimony of the reality and divinity of Jesus Christ in all the world.” Jaron Lanier was a pioneer in virtual reality technology and helped create the ideology of Web 2.0 futurism and digital utopianism. Both these men are sounding warnings about the consequences of  our digitized culture – they feel we are missing the essence of things as they really are.

Lanier now calls the ideology he helped create "digital Maoism" and accuses Facebook and Google of being “spy agencies.” “Now he wants to subvert the “hive mind,” as the web world’s been called, before it engulfs us all, destroys political discourse, economic stability, the dignity of personhood and leads to “social catastrophe…. Lanier is suggesting we are outsourcing ourselves into insignificant advertising-fodder. Nanobytes of Big Data that diminish our personhood, our dignity.”

Bednar is concerned about the “potentially stifling, suffocating, suppressing, and constraining impact of some kinds of cyberspace interactions and experiences upon our souls.” We existed as spirits before coming to this earth. We come here to receive a physical body and experience earth life with that body. “Our bodies make possible a breadth, a depth, and an intensity of experience that simply could not be obtained in our premortal estate.” Virtual reality and digital distractions can cause us to “disconnect gradually and physically from things as they really are.” If we are not careful we can miss the  richness of person-to-person communication and the learning and joy that comes from experiences involving our physical bodies. 

Technology can be used for great good. We like to think that people enjoy what's posted on this blog and are even sometimes edified by the content. This technology and others make it possible for us to stay in touch with family and friends who are far away. We also are aware of issues introduced by technology such as privacy, taking the place of in person interactions, some people and some companies knowing more than they need to know or we want them to know. It is our responsibility to use what we've been given for good purposes. 
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Read more about Jaron Lanier here
Read David Bednar's talk here

Saturday, January 19, 2013

Kirkland


The City of Kirkland has come out with a new tourism video. 
Check it out! Read more about the 2 minute video here


While looking for the new video on YouTube, 
I found this 9 minute video made in 2008.


Kirkland is as wonderful as depicted in both these videos.



Thursday, January 17, 2013

Fear Not, I Am WIth Thee


“Never take counsel from your fears.” So said Civil War General Stonewall Jackson when he heard a commander say, “I fear …” In a college commencement address David Bednar talked about the importance of taking counsel from the Lord, not our fears.

“As we consider so many of the things that are occurring all around us today, we could perhaps find ample reasons to be afraid, to hesitate, and to wonder if things in our lives can indeed turn out the way we have long hoped they would turn out. …

To not take counsel from our fears simply means that we do not permit fear and uncertainty to determine our course in life, to affect negatively our attitudes and behavior, to influence improperly our important decisions, or to divert or distract us from all in this world that is virtuous, lovely, or of good report.  To not take counsel from our fears means that faith in the Lord Jesus Christ overrules our fears and that we press forward with a steadfastness in Him.  To not take counsel from our fears means that we trust in God’s guidance, assurance, and timing in our lives.  I promise each of us can and will be blessed with direction, protection, and lasting joy as we learn to not take counsel from our fears.

As we exercise faith in Christ and trust in His promises, we can walk into the dark with the absolute assurance that our pathway will be illuminated—at least far enough to take the next step—and then the next step—and the next step.   …

‘For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind’ (2 Timothy 1:7).  These principles are the great antidotes to the fears that rob us of our strength and sometimes knock us down to defeat. They give us power.  'What power? The power of the gospel, the power of truth, the power of faith, the power of the priesthood' (Gordon B. Hinckley)

'Though the storm clouds may gather, though the rains may pour down upon us, our knowledge of the gospel and our love of our Heavenly Father and of our Savior will comfort and sustain us and bring joy to our hearts as we walk uprightly and keep the commandments.  There will be nothing in this world that can defeat us…Fear not.  Be of good cheer.  The future is as bright as your faith' (Thomas Monson). ...

The Savior reassured His disciples, 'I will go before your face.  I will be on your right hand and on your left, and my Spirit shall be in your hearts, and mine angels round about you, to bear you up' (Doctrine &Covenants 84:88)."

  Click here for this talk by David Bednar



Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Book - From Puritan to Yankee


From Puritan to Yankee: Character and the Social Order in Connecticut, 1690-1765 - by Richard L. Bushman; 1967

This book was fascinating for several reasons. We had direct line ancestors from both Mom's and Dad's families in Connecticut at the time discussed in this book. The author's explanations of land ownership, town formation, roles played by various citizens, and other such matters will help when doing genealogy in this part of the country and during this time period. Also - the social and political challenges sound very familiar. Some things don't change. 

A review from goodreads.com
"The years from 1690 to 1765 in America have usually been considered a waiting period before the Revolution. Mr. Bushman, in his penetrating study of colonial Connecticut, takes another view. He shows how, during these years, economic ambition and religious ferment profoundly altered the structure of Puritan society, enlarging the bounds of liberty and inspiring resistance to established authority.

This is an investigation of the strains that accompanied the growth of liberty in an authoritarian society. Mr. Bushman traces the deterioration of Puritan social institutions and the consequences for human character. He does this by focusing on day-to-day life in Connecticut--on the farms, in the churches, and in the town meetings. Controversies within the towns over property, money, and church discipline shook the "land of steady habits," and the mounting frustration of common needs compelled those in authority, in contradiction to Puritan assumptions, to become more responsive to popular demands.

In the Puritan setting these tensions were inevitably given a moral significance. Integrating social and economic interpretations, Mr. Bushman explains the Great Awakening of the 1740's as an outgrowth of the stresses placed on the Puritan character. Men, plagued with guilt for pursuing their economic ambitions and resisting their rulers, became highly susceptible to revival preaching.

The Awakening gave men a new vision of the good society. The party of the converted, the "New Lights," which also absorbed people with economic discontents, put unprecedented demands on civil and ecclesiastical authorities. The resulting dissension moved Connecticut, almost unawares, toward republican attitudes and practices. Disturbed by the turmoil, many observers were, by 1765, groping toward a new theory of social order that would reconcile traditional values with their eighteenth-century experiences."



Monday, January 14, 2013

Peaceful & Loving Countenance


Have you ever met someone who radiates Christ's love and peace?

“The face which speaks of a soul where reigns the Prince of Peace is his best witness. ... Such was a face I saw today. … His face was a power of peace; his presence a benediction of peace. In the tranquil depths of his eyes were not only the ‘home of silent prayer,’ but the abode of spiritual strength. As he talked of ... the certainty of the hope which was his, ... I watched the play of emotions and studied with fascinated attention the subtle shades of expression which spoke so plainly the workings of his soul; and the strangest feeling stole over me, that I ‘stood on holy ground:’ that this man did not act from the commonplace motives of policy, interest, or expediency, but he ‘acted from a far-off center.’"*

We can feel it when a person's "far off center" is Christ. When we encounter such people, whether in person, or through the media, we feel loved, at ease, and peaceful - even when we don't know the person well. There is a depth, spiritual depth, that we can feel. 

Wouldn't it be wonderful if people saw and felt this reflected in each of us?

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*Reverend Prentis said this about Lorenzo Snow; quoted in Nephi Anderson, “Life and Character Sketch of Lorenzo Snow,” Improvement Era, June 1899, 569–70.

Saturday, January 12, 2013

Reminders of Autumn



In the midst of winter - with or without cold and snow -
Here's a reminder of the beauties of autumn

Chinese lantern plant
I miss walking in the big piles of dry, crunchy oak leaves. 
We haven't seen any oak trees out here.