Friday, August 21, 2015

Peace of Mind

Joe is giving this message to the people he home teaches this month. 


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Peace of mind is a very important part of life, but often seems hard to achieve.



Quentin L. Cook said, “What are the sources of peace? Many search for peace in worldly ways, which never have and never will succeed. Peace is not found by attaining great wealth, power, or prominence. Peace is not found in the pursuit of pleasure, entertainment, or leisure. None of these can, even when attained in abundance, create any lasting happiness or peace “  

So how do we get peace of mind as a way of life ? We have to go to its eternal source – Heavenly Father and to the person He sent to us to show the way – Jesus Christ.

"Learn of me, and listen to my words; walk in the meekness of my Spirit, and you shall have peace in me." Doctrine and Covenants 19:23

The key to peace in our lives is: Learn, Listen, Walk following Jesus Christ as a way of life. – Not just a nice thought – but a walk to become like Christ – step by step, inch by inch with determination and persistence knowing we are on the true path and will obtain our ultimate reward of returning to live with Heavenly Father and his Son Jesus Christ – our brother.   

Click here for entire talk

Thursday, August 20, 2015

Avocado & Gold

Avocado & harvest gold were the "in" colors in the late 1960s and early 1970s
These swivel racks have been in my kitchen since Harvest Street (perhaps at Oxley Road, prior to Harvest Street). Then they went to North Street. Then Kirkland Avenue - and wherever we go next. 
I recently came across these table cloths. I made the bottom one with the fringe when we moved into our Harvest Street home.The top one was with us on Oxley Road in Columbus, before we bought the house on Harvest Street. Here's that table cloth on Oxley Road at Michael's first birthday party (August 1969)


More avocado and gold 
Julius at Hide-A-Way Hills in August 1972

The metal cabinets in our kitchen at Harvest Street 
were a yellowish-gold - June 1970

Read about the popularity of this color combination in the 1960s and 1970s herehere, and here.
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Side Notes: - Glasses on table at Oxley Road - These were in Duz detergent. Mom collected an entire set of them and gave them to us when we were married or shortly thereafter. Pyrex bowl in bottom picture - John and I received a set of three of these bowls as a wedding gift. Joe and I are still using two of them. The third bowl broke sometime in the last 48 years. 

What "in" colors are you using now that you'll find in your home almost 50 years from now? Kind of strange to contemplate, isn't it?

Wednesday, August 19, 2015

Interactions & Listening

interactions that nourish the soul 
interactions during which people can feel your love



"For our interactions to truly touch their hearts, we have to pay attention to them, ... Most important is letting them talk, then asking them questions. And then being willing to listen, yes listen, and listen some more." Robert Hales

From talk on parenting 

Monday, August 17, 2015

1909 Cathcart Trip - Canada - Vancouver To Prince Rupert

Anna, Celia & William Cathcart
 ca 1910
16 year old Celia Cathcart is traveling with her parents, Anna and William Cathcart, and "grandmother." We're assuming this was Emma Sconce. Friday, July 9, 1909 the party boarded a ship in Seattle, Washington and headed north to Canada and then Alaska. Celia is my father's mother. 
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Friday July 9 .
[in Seattle] Friday we spent in shopping and in resting. We left the hotel about 9:30 and got aboard the Princess Charlotte where we spent the night, arriving at Vancouver about 8:30. The Sound was very smooth and the stateroom a model of comfortable luxury, so my first night on the water was a most pleasant one. We spent the day at the Vancouver Hotel which is under the management of the C.P.R.R. We didn't venture out all day, as it rained, except to go across the street to an Indian curio shop. One peculiar thing about the street car system of Vancouver is that the conductors pass around a little mug into which each passenger drops his fare so that the conductor is not tempted to be dishonest.

Friday night we left Vancouver on the Princess Royal for Skagway. The boat was billed to leave at 11:00, but there was so much loading to be done that it was between 3 and 4 before we left. The ship was one owned by the C.P.R. It was a three-decker, and a very big affair. It was crowded to its utmost, as there had to be two sittings at the dining room which accommodated about 100, The channel was very narrow the first day, as we passed through the Seymour Narrow, the water was very calm and of a dark green in color. About 4:30 Sunday evening the ship made its first stop at Alert Bay. This is an Indian village. The houses in which the natives lived were all alike except for a difference in the color of paint used. They all had three windows in the front, one high one and one on each side of that but lower down. These, of course, were in the fronts of the houses, which were perfectly plain except for a set-in doorway. The roofs were all V-shaped. To one side of each doorway stood a totem pole. These are great wooden monuments, carved and painted to represent all sorts of hideous figures such as persons, fish, and birds. These poles are the record of the family history of each household, and are very dear to the Indians. Sunday night, whales were seen at quite a distance from the boat. Later, it became very rough, and many persons got desperately seasick.

Monday July 12
Monday morning it was calm again. The first stop was made about 8:30 at Swanson's Bay, where a big pulp factory is located. The day was foggy as its predecessor had been, and the clouds hung very low over the heavily wooded mountain. Snowcapped peaks were to be seen, and at their base, pretty waterfalls. No stops were made during the day, but one Indian village was passed. Near this were numerous fishing boats in which men were manipulating their large nets. Snow-capped mountains were still plainly to be seen. Late in the evening, Prince Rupert was reached. On account of the large amount of freight to be unloaded, the ship remained here quite long, Prince Rupert is the terminus of the Grand Trunk Pacific Railroad, and a great deal is expected of it. It is expected to become the city of southeast Alaska.

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According to this site, the Princess Charlotte was a new ship in January 1909. In 1949 after 40 years of service in the Pacific Northwest waters, Princess Charlotte was sold to a Greek shipping line and was in service another 15 years. 


The “Princess” title came to be used for CPR [Canadian Pacific Railway] ships because of the aging CPNC [company bought by CPR] vessel Princess Louise. The popular “Empress” ships were already established in the Pacific, so the decision was made to carry out a royal theme, with smaller coastal ships bearing the prefix “Princess”. In the 1960s Stan McDonald chartered one of the Princess ships and became excited about cruising. His company, Princess Cruises, was named after the Princess Patricia, the ship he chartered a number of times.  source 

Vancouver Hotel, Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada - 1909 postcard

CPRR & CPR - Canadian Pacific Railroad

Princess Royal - ship to Skagway; image ca 1910


 "Princess Royal, a larger wooden ship of 227 feet having 72 staterooms with 144 berths also from BC Marine Railways was fitted with large triple expansion engines designed for 15 knots. She made her maiden voyage on July 18, 1907 sailing to Alaska." source 

Seymour Narrows - a treacherous part of the journey

Alert Bay, British Columbia, Canada - Indian Village, totem poles. Celia's descriptions of the houses were very accurate based on the pictures at the link below. Click here for images of people & buildings at Alert Bay in 1909. You can see some of the totem poles that Celia didn't care for. History of totem poles here


Swanson Bay, pulp factory - Click here for a history of the town

History of Prince Rupert & Terminus of Grand Trunk Pacific Railroad - Click here


It's fascinating to follow the ship's route through narrow waterways of the Inside Passage

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Congratulations for making it to the end of the post. I hope you explored the links. I was surprised at the number of photos I could find from the time the Cathcart family was cruising these waters. I keep thinking about 16 year old Celia from very small town Illinois and all that she's experiencing on this trip. 

annotations added to this map



Sunday, August 16, 2015

Fresh Courage Take

Some of life's trials are long lasting and won't get better in this life - like Parkinson's. We face those challenges with as much courage as we can muster and an immense amount of hope and gratitude for our lives and relationships on the other side of the veil. 

I usually fall asleep easily but recently I tossed and turned for hours. My heart and mind were preoccupied with all that's going on. The phrase "fresh courage take" was the first thing I was aware of when I woke up the next morning. 

I was thankful for that reminder. Sometimes we need to straighten our shoulders, "gird up our loins" (see hymn below), reset our grip, take a deep breath, and keep setting one foot in front of  the other with increased determination and courage. That's what came to me that morning - fresh courage take.


Come, come, ye Saints, no toil nor labor fear;

But with joy wend your way.

Though hard to you this journey may appear,

Grace shall be as your day.

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Gird up your loins; fresh courage take.

Our God will never us forsake;

And soon we'll have this tale to tell--

All is well! All is well!

Click image to hear Mormon Tabernacle Choir sing
Come, Come, Ye Saints



lyrics here
From the hymn - Come, Come, Ye Saints - Written by William Clayton as the Latter-day Saints were trekking west after being driven out of Kirtland, Ohio; then Missouri; and finally Nauvoo, Illinois.
image - Handcart Monument by Torleif Knaphus, Temple Square, Salt Lake City


Thursday, August 13, 2015

Prayers During Life's Journeys

We often pray for our loved ones and their journeys. I just came across these thoughts about a trip and our prayers during the journey.

Our son has done the 200 miles bike ride from Seattle to Portland at least twice, once with a son and another time with a daughter - both times with people from their church congregation. The ride is a tradition for some members of their congregation.

One year their journey had many similarities to the journey we make through life. Our prayers for them over the two days mirrored, in a small way, prayers we have for our family and friends and the prayers our Heavenly Parents have for us as we go through our journeys here on earth. Their ride started in the rain – a heavy rain. As parents, we hope none of our children have to go through too many “rainstorms.” When a storm does appear in their lives, we pray for protection and safety as they navigate the tough times. On long journeys, and life is certainly a long journey if we’re fortunate, we delight in the stretches of sunny hours and smooth roads. When the journey is seeming to be long, we pray that legs don’t cramp and that bodies, minds, and spirits are up to the exertion that’s required for the journey.

Although we want sunshine and no hills and no accidents for all of our children on their journeys, we also know, from our own journeys, that life just doesn’t go that way all the time. We also know we can learn invaluable lessons from the rough patches of our lives. Just as our son and grandchildren trained for their rides, all of us have choices about how well we prepare ourselves and consistently train for this journey through earth life. 

Heavenly Father, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit are the best coaches we can have – and the scriptures are one of the most useful training manuals ever. 




Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Missing

This time of year I'm missing delicious, 
still-warm-from-the-garden Ohio tomatoes
gift from a friend - fresh off the vine

Most years it's difficult to grow tomatoes here due to the cooler climate and short warm season. Often they develop on the vine but don't ripen. One of the only good things that can be said about the ten 90 degree days we had this year is that tomatoes had enough hot days to ripen!

I eagerly cut into these tomatoes and savored the taste - probably the best we've had since moving out here. But, not too far back in my memory is the taste of Ohio tomatoes, especially those grown in that wonderful Ohio River mud in Gallipolis - now that's how a tomato should taste!